Don’t beat yourself up with guilt over this, but be open to understand how others did not have that advantage. Be supportive of their desire to get some equality in that. Be willing and ready to join them in this. Don’t feel you are losing anything by advancing others. If you get less opportunity because the field is even, then you can enjoy the wins more because they were earnt, and accept the losses, because we all had an equal chance. Campaign often, and loudly for the things you believe. Direct action will sometimes be neccesary. Don’t fear the consequence of what you believe to be right. Have passions, and convictions, and don’t do things by halves. You may not be able to change the big picture. The challenge may be too big and out of your grasp, but you can change your own world, and help those directly effected in any way you can. Charity is not philanthropy, or even religion. Be good to others, one day you might need it. Be what some might call being an allie, but never think of yourself as one. I accept the compliment when it is offered, but struggle to understand how this is not just not being an arse. This is how we all should be. You dont need a badge.